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BLOWMESOON INTERVIEW

Blowsmesoon is another recent arrival at ES; his first story, "Muddy," was published as recently as last October. Since then, however, he has published new tales at a prodigious rate, and currently has seven stories, spread over twenty-three parts, awaiting your pleasure. So, tell us a little about yourself, please?

If you saw me out in public, you'd never know I was undressing you with my eyes or maybe even thinking of having you right then and there if your pleasing to my eye, but once you get to know me and I know you're not one to be bashful ... look out. I'm easy going, like to keep active by playing sports with the guys and going to the gym and enjoy life. I don't take life for granted either because none of us know how long we have so you should live life to the fullest.

Q: How and when did you begin writing erotic stories?

I've actually written them for some time going off and on the last 5 years or so and mainly just for me in order to blow off steam, sexual steam that is. From teenager to now my mind is on sex 24/7, whether I'm walking down the street, driving to work or watching TV and I finally started putting some things down on paper.

Q: Have you published anywhere other than ES.com?

No

Q: What is it about writing erotica that you most enjoy?

When it's a fantasy I'm writing about it's all about what I'd like to do to someone who may not know yet that I'm interested in them. When it's about something I've done or am doing then it's all about reliving the feeling of that moment or encounter over again as I immortalize it into words.

Q: What is your favorite category to write in, and why?

The adultery category for sure, I love it when the main character has their cake and eats it too! Mainly because of the thrill of getting caught and all the things that have to be done to successfully get away with it. Your adrenaline gets pumping and you seem to have that extra little something inside you while being bad! One on one is good too, I think I've written one there too but it could've gone to adultery as well.

Q: How much of yourself do you include in your stories?

Most of what I write is about me and the experiences I've been lucky enough to have and this site has given me the perfect avenue to share them because with the names changed to protect the "not so innocent" I can let it out without fear of it coming back and getting me into trouble.

Q: Is there anything that happens in your stories that you would really like to try in "real life", but haven't yet been able to?

Not yet, but I'm going to go down that road pretty soon as I keep writing, there are so many possibilities to cover and my mind can wander pretty far when I let it. The biggest thing that I've thought about though I haven't written it into one of my stories is a threesome with women but hasn't thought of a good story for it ....yet. I've never done that and really haven't sought it out but some of the other writers on ES are so good in their stories that I may have to cross that line and try it on paper and in real life, just have to wait and see.

Q: Does your partner or any of your friends know that you write? What do they think?

That would be a capital N O , I don't share with anyone what I write or done. Otherwise it would take the thrill out of it and wouldn't make it as enticing as it is for me. If my partner found out, let's say I'd have a lot more time on my hands to write even more stories!

Q: What, if any, difficulties do you face when writing - erotic writing difficulties and general writing difficulties? And how do you overcome them?

I fully understand writer's block, at times you get in a rut with the same words and want to make sure you create new visuals to enhance what you're trying to convey. The main thing I find hard is that since I'm publishing them on the site it means others read and critique them and I hope to please everyone but that's not always possible. Just as I've learned over the years at work and home, you can't please everyone all the time, so I let things go and not let them bother me. I was writing the stories for myself to basically go back and recall some of the experiences that I had and refresh them in my mind vividly. So to me they are perfect as they are written because I was there and that's how I felt at that time or what I had done.

Q: How about in more general terms - how do you feel about the "outside world's perception of erotic writing?

It's obviously a huge following because the wave of books that are out and coming out are using erotic writing more and more and I'm glad to see it. In fact one book I read gave me an idea for some fun outside the house one day which led to a very very very erotic encounter.

Q: One thing that I love about ES is that you very quickly build up a community of fans, who enjoy writing to and hearing from their favorite authors. Do you have any favorite topics that have surfaced in these "conversations"?

Oh definitely, I've greatly enjoyed meeting many different people from ES and talk to them regularly. It's great to share experiences with them and find that we have so much in common. I'll refrain from sharing the "conversations" discussed though based on writer to writer confidentiality! However, there is also that damn distance barrier which prevents from meeting some of them in person! If that were to happen I could have even more stories to share on ES.

Q: How do you feel when you receive negative comments or very low votes from readers?

I listen to them and give them weight but don't let it bother me, after all the story is written more for my pleasure than anyone else's and it's just a sharing on my part. Not everyone gets into the same things or does things the same way so they are welcome to their opinions. We're all unique and that's a good thing. The ones that send extremely negative feedback though really crack me up; after all it's an amateur site not Reader's Digest so lighten up a little.

Q: And do you read, and respond to, other writers on the site? Who are your favorites?

I do have a few favorites, with my idol being Jillbaby. I love her style, so fluid and really easy to place yourself in her writing like she's writing it for you; I can only hope I get to be really good like her over time. LadyGrey is great too, I love reading her stories and that one Naughty Miranda, she's no slouch either - always has you coming back for more. There was one burning star there for a very short time called Wayward Eve but she's been quiet for a few months now. I'm hoping she's stocking up and will be putting something out....(putting out stories).....geez get your mind out of the gutter!

Q: Do you remember the first pornography you ever saw?

My first porno was actually my first visit to a local strip bar right after I turned 18, there were magazines before that but I don't count them toward my first. Her name was Carrie Ann or her stage name at least and that woman was like a slice of heaven when I met her. Standing at about 5'4" with natural full breasts and an awesome, jaw dropping body that had me squirming in my seat as she danced before me. That was back in a time when the girls would do almost do anything and everything to you in the strip bar, and what probably started me down the road of constant hard ons!

Q: What's the kinkiest thing you have ever done?

Hood of a car with my girlfriend at the time while the car was parked on what was a well-traveled street I must say. It was very erotic every time headlights would shine across us as I fucked her on the hood of her mother's car. It was two in the morning so traffic wasn't constant but still the thought of people driving by and getting a free show kept me at it for a long time. That was the earliest thing I had done, but lately I've found conference rooms to be a good setting for a very satisfying time.

Q: Do you have any fantasies that you would like to fulfill?

Actually there is one, I would love to have a yearly affair, meaning to meet someone with a like interests and desires and once a year in the same month we meet and fuck like wild rabbits for a few days and then go back to our lives. I know there is a movie out there like this already but I've had this thought before I knew it existed, I just think that could be some of the best sex if it was to happen. Think about it, all year you storing up pent up sexual energy for this person who you have little contact with but you strive to remember their scent from the last time you coupled or how they felt wrapped around you or how they moan in your ear or how their arms feel around you. I may be working on a story for that one day soon, be pure fantasy of course at this point as it's only a fantasy on my part... hmmmmmm any takers out there I wonder?

Q: What draws to you to the opposite sex?

I'm a hair and eyes kind of guy, always have been. When I first meet a woman, I'm all about her eyes because they tell you so much about a person. You can tell if they are truthful, caring, and fun to be around and if they are mischievous by the glint in their eye. I've always loved long hair, especially when it's spread out across the pillow underneath her while she's in my bed, and you can grab it while doing doggy style. I enjoy all types of women as they are all different in every possible way and getting to know them intimately is challenging and rewarding at the same time. What is a major turn on for you during sex?

There are several things which really get going during sex. Kissing, I'm a huge fan of it and a woman that appreciates it is very high in my book. A woman who will take charge in that she isn't afraid of letting you know what she wants and how to please her is another, when two people are together some mystery is a good thing but there is nothing wrong with telling your partner what you're wanting. And let's not leave out seduction, that's another huge turn on for me, the sexual banter of two people testing the waters with each other to see how far the other will go all the while not knowing where it will lead them.

Q: How about a major turn off?

The "dead fish" syndrome - yuck! Someone is all talk and then when it comes down to it they don't move or talk to do anything but lay there and expect to be satisfied, been there done that and was sorely disappointed.

Q: How do you feel about same sex relationships, both personally and as a writer?

I'm not into it but again like I said before everyone is unique and we all do things our own way. I have a family member that is in a same sex relationship and their happy so I'm happy for them. I don't necessarily like to see the outward displays of affection between them but it's their life and choice.

Q: How long does it take for you to write a story? Could you talk us through the process?

It's different each time really, sometimes I have the time to sit down and write one in a few hours but others I may only get to write a small part at a time due to work and home constraints. Whether it's an idea I've been thinking about or an actual experience I'm writing I go with laying out the base of it in my head and then put it to paper and then add in all the juicy details.

Q: What do you think is the best story you have published here?

My first one, "Muddy" because it was the first time I wrote something specifically for the ES site. I had just gotten home from that day and had to write it for myself and thought it would be a good one to add to the site. I had been thinking of publishing to ES but until then kept putting it off but after that day and how I was feeling when I got home that day I couldn't resist. I still go back and read that one over and over because it's actually the first in the series of Cole and Shelly and I loved our first encounter.

Q: Is there anything else you would like to say to the readers of this interview and your fans? Now is your chance...

I enjoy meeting new people, so if you want send me an email; I'm always open to talk to....about anything. I've actually had some write me and simply say what they would like to do to me in a fantasy they've thought of which I greatly enjoyed.

Q: Finally, do you have a website or a blog, where your fans can visit and maybe learn more about you?

No, I don't, like I said I've just started posting to the site and currently have no plans on blogging, but have thoughts of a website one day.

Please read blowmesoon's stories.