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BAREFTNIT INTERVIEW

Q. How long have you been publishing at ES?

A. Since October of last year, 2012.

Q. What and when was the first story you published here?

A. My first story was "My Wife and Sid the Kid". It was a couple of events my ex-wife and I had combined into one story.

Q. How many stories have you published since then?

A. I guess 10 more. One of the stories is in two parts, but I decided to publish the rest as individual stories when the second part got relatively few reads although it rated well.

Q. What was your most recent one?

A. I am guessing that I will get "A June Affair" published before the interview comes out. It is back to a true story after switching to fiction for a little while with my "Neighborhood Watch" stories.

Q. To begin with, what can you tell us about yourself? Three or four points that will help your fans get to know you a little better.

A. I am living proof that an average guy can have an above average sex life. I consider myself above average in several ways, but cannot think of anything that really makes me exceptional. Being polite and unassuming has somehow attracted a lot of women to me that I did not deserve.

Q. Tell us about your first truly memorable and exciting erotic experience - who was it with, what did you think, what did you do?

A. That is kind of tough for me to pin down since I really am not sure where I separate eroticism versus romance versus risque. I would probably say when my girlfriend and I got snowed into a little cabin in the mountains my freshman year in college. It was snowing and cold so we did little more than make love on a fur in front of the fire for two days. I guess there was the kitchen table, the shower, and of course the bed but I guess you get the point. Now I would probably just consider it romantic, but since she was only my third lover I would have considered erotic at the time.

Q. What do you look for in a lover... and what do you look for in a one-night stand?

A. I guess the only difference between a lover and a one-night stand is that I don't care if the one night stand has a personality. You can call me shallow but I think that looks are important especially in the beginning when you have nothing else to go on. If things go further then looks become less important but they are needed to get to that point.

Q. They say that men are at their sexual peak at 18 and women at 35. What is your opinion?

A. I don't know about sexual peak, but I know what ages I have had the most fun at and with. When I was in my early 20's I preferred women in their late 20's to early 30's. Twenty years later and after a large range of women, I still prefer women from their late 20's to early 30's. As for myself, so far the older I have gotten, the more fun I have had.

Q. What's the kinkiest thing you have ever done? And what did you think about it afterwards?

A. I guess doing my ex anal while she used a vibrator on her pussy. I know that is not very kinky but in general I think kinky is going further than we think is normal. Once we go there we reclassify it so that it is not kinky, because we generally want to consider ourselves normal. At the same time, even though I am not going to complain about anal, I am not sure that I will ever consider it normal.

Q. What is the strangest place you have ever had sex?

A. I would have to say on a trampoline. When you get in rhythm it works OK, but when you are not it can get quite awkward.

Q. Big tits or small? Legs or ass?

A. Medium to big on the tits, but definitely ass. I love small women, so a lot of the time I have to concede breast size. At the same time, it seems to me that the ass is just more prominent on short women.

Q. Have you ever met a girl who couldn't fit your cock in her mouth? What did you do instead?

A. I am not sure I would want my cock to be that big. I think that I am about average in length and probably a little above average in girth, but have never found a woman that couldn't fit it in their mouth. I have found plenty that wouldn't fit it in their mouth and then you make the best of whatever they are in to.

Q. Tell us some of your sexual preferences.

A. Like I said earlier, I love small women. I love an athletic build although many that I go out with are on the slender side. A little big is fine too as long as they have the tits to go with it. I enjoy women that are clean shaven and have no complaints about a little hair, but I am not into the big bush (not sure anyone is anymore). I like women that are somewhat vocal. If they get too loud, most of the time I just think they are putting on a show, versus enjoying it that much though there are exceptions.

I LOVE to eat pussy, probably even more than Chrissie/Naughty Miranda likes to suck cock. Maybe that has something to do with the shaving preference. I also enjoy watching my dick slide in and out so my favorite position is reverse cowgirl, followed closely by doggystyle, which is followed closely with her on top and me in a half sitting position. Then of course I enjoy getting a blowjob. As I have alluded to in my stories, I think it is interesting the different styles that different girls use.

Q. When you began writing erotic stories -and why?

A. I began writing last year when I was out of the country for a few months last year and only had internet access at work. I would recount different events and decided to start writing them down. As I did, I found that it was a real turn on to write things down and start adding detail to the stories. Sometimes the details were vivid in my mind and sometimes not, but I found that I could make them what I wanted when I couldn't remember them as well. The more I wrote the more I enjoyed it.

Q. What is it about writing erotica that you most enjoy?

A. The great thing about writing erotica is that you can relive events from your past. Even in the fictional stories that I have written, I will draw from personal experience. The experiences are just much more pieced together than in the true stories.

Q. Does your partner or any of your friends know that you write? What do they think?

A. No, my partner does not know, nor do any of my friends. Only "A Trip for Fate" is about my current partner. I wrote it largely because I felt guilty for not writing about her and don't consider it one of my better stories. There have been a few more interesting experiences but in the past I have worried that she might discover a story and be upset that I documented it.

Q. What is your favorite category to write in, and why?

A. I guess it would be "Threesomes", although "Group" and "Exhibitionism" would be right up there too. Anything where there is more than just a couple involved. I have had plenty of great "one on one" experiences but I feel like I need the plot to keep the reader's interest. With "one on one" stories there needs to be so much more descriptive narrative that I find tougher to write.

Q. How much of yourself do you include in your stories?

A. A LOT. Over half of my stories are nearly entirely true. There was a real "Sid" whose size really embarrassed me, though I think I am probably slightly above average. Going back to the earlier question. My Ex was still able to fit him in her mouth. There really was a younger couple in a "Show for a Show". I just don't think it would be much fun writing if there was not any of myself in the stories.

Q. Is there anything that happens in your stories that you would really like to try in "real life", but haven't yet been able to?

A. I guess "Neighborhood Watch - The Pool Party" is kind of a mini orgy. A foursome is the most that I have been in, and it was more of a two couples thing. I just think with the right people that it would be fun to have a larger group session where people were just switching from person to person.

Q. One thing that I love about ES is that you very quickly build up a community of fans, who enjoy writing to and hearing from their favorite authors. Have you ever gone further and started IMing, texting or even met any of your fans?

A. No. The only communication that I have had has been through email, although there have been a few fun and interesting conversations that way.

Q. How do you feel when you receive negative comments or very low votes from readers?

A. Mostly I just wish more people would vote. For them to take a few moments to vote or send feedback is huge. I really should take my own advice though, since I only vote when a story is a solid 10 to me. I really have not had any negative comments. The worst I have had is "Hurry up and put another story out." And that is not a bad thing. Most of the lower votes that I have had seems to be from people that just have a different scale. When I get a 6 or 7 and I look and see that is what they are voting on other stories I can't get upset. I wish they would adjust things where they are falling along the same part of the scale as the other readers, but oh well.

Q. What do you think is the best story you have published here?

A. I would say "My Wife and Sid the Kid - Jenn's Perspective". I love hearing about sex from a woman's perspective, and my ex and I discussed and used this experience in our sex lives enough that I think I knew her perspective pretty well. My opinion is probably somewhat biased because of the experience. Generally, I am somewhat homophobic, but it was tough not to admire a cock that damn big. It was fun watching her enjoy herself that much, and maybe indirectly I felt like I was more a part of it by allowing it.

Q. Is there anything else you would like to say to the readers of this interview and your fans? Now is your chance...

A. Mainly, I would like to say, "Give it a shot and write a story." If you have never tried it, then I think that you will be surprised how much that you enjoy doing it. I am referring to writing. I just hope that someday I feel comfortable enough to enjoy it with my partner. I don't mind sharing a part of myself, but to this point I have always worried that my partner would not feel the same way.

Q. Finally, do you have a website or a blog, where your fans can visit and maybe learn more about you?

A. I don't have a website or a blog. They can learn a lot about me by reading my stories. If there is anything in particular that they want to know then they should always feel free to email me and ask. Most likely I will give them an honest answer to their question. Worst case scenario, if they ask an odd question that I do not feel comfortable answering, I will tell them so most likely with the reason that I don't.

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