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EROTICA FAN INTERVIEW

Erotica Fan has been with us since December 2014 - around the same time, in fact, as he started writing erotica. "I didn't really plan on it, I was talking to my wife about my life before we got married and I thought it would be pretty cool to see if other people liked my thoughts." Beginning with "Asian Delight" because "I love the Asian lifestyle and the women are so gorgeous."

Since that time, he has published 16 stories so far, with "another 20-25 either outlined out or in my head. I work full time so trying to find the time to write is difficult."

Q. What was your most recent one?

A: I just published "Forgiveness Finds A Way". It is about a man who works hard to provide for his beautiful wife. She ends up leaving him for his cousin, but in the end he does finds happiness.

Q. Now, is there anything you'd like to tell us about yourself?

A: I am a man who loves his wife with all his heart and soul. I am active duty military and have served 18 years protecting this nation. I am happily married with three kids.

Q. What is it about writing erotica that you most enjoy?

A: I am happily married, but my sex life with my wife is pretty plan. I have tried to change it and explore new things with my wife, but she is very stubborn. I have never strayed, so I life out my fantasies through writing. I have never had anal sex before, so I usually always add that to a story I write. I guess it is as simple as I get my rocks off writing stories that I know I will never actually participate in.

Q. What is your favorite category to write in, and why?

A: This one is hard for me. I love reading adultery stories, but I hate it when the woman or guy gets away with it. I suppose that is why I have read every one of Just Plain Bob's stories. He stories about adultery are the best I have read on here. I also like reading cuckold stories, but I hate it when the humiliation goes to the extreme. I like it when the cuckold stands up for himself and either kicks the bulls ass or throws his whore of a wife out in the street. Basically I love a underdog story and I hate it when the cheater wins.

Q. How much of yourself do you include in your stories?

A: All my stories come from my imagination or from fans that send me their life experiences. My stories are a wish list of what I would if I could start my life over again. I would defiantly try new things, even things that are considered taboo in main stream thoughts.

Q. Is there anything that happens in your stories that you would really like to try in "real life", but haven't yet been able to?

A: Hell yes there is. I would definitely try anal, threesomes. I would try everything I could in real life if I could rewind my life.

Q. Does your partner or any of your friends know that you write? What do they think?

A: My wife knows I write, but she thinks it is not the best outlet for me. She feels that our sex life is good the way it is. No one else knows that I write erotica.

Q. What, if any, difficulties do you face when writing - erotic writing difficulties and general writing difficulties? And how do you overcome them?

A: Editing, I have a very hard time editing stories down. I also type the way I talk, so sometimes my stories read weird to the fans. These are areas where I am trying to improve.

Q. How about in more general terms – how do you feel about the "outside world's" perception of erotic writing?

A: I feel like the outside world has a negative view when it comes to erotica in general. I believe if you are willingly doing it and it is not harming anyone, then go for it. You only have one life, I say make it the best you can and enjoy the hell out of it.

Q. How do you feel when you receive negative comments or very low votes from readers?

A: If the negative comment has merit, then I read it and try to improve. If it is just a comment trying to be a smart ass, then I usually ignore it. I write these stories for my entertainment.

Q. What kind of stories would you never write?

A: There is only one type of story that I will not write and that is about sex between family members. I feel that is just wrong. I have wrote male on male, Bi, straight, cuckold, adultery stories. I am pretty opened minded when it comes to sex in regards to of age adults and not related.

Q. And do you read, and respond to, other writers on the site? Who are your favorites?

A: Yes I read stories everyday it seems like when I am bored. I have several authors that I communicate with on a regular basis. Hot Rider, OldguyFl, Plain old Bob and Lyn are my favorites.

Q. What's the kinkiest thing you have ever done?

A: My wife gave me a blow job in the airplane bathroom while we were flying to the Philippines for vacation.

Q. Do you have any fantasies that you would like to fulfill?

A: I would like to be in a bathroom peeing and the man next to me ask me if he could relieve my hard-on for me. I turn toward him and he sucks my dick till I blow then goes back to his table and kisses his wife. He tells her what happens and all three of us go to a motel where I fuck her and him into exhaustion. I would love to fuck a woman in the ass while she talks to her husband on the phone then she cleans me. I have recently had fantasies of me domination a woman while her husband sits and watches and she gets pregnant and he doesn't know that I am the daddy.

Q. What is a major turn on for you during sex?

A: I love lace on a woman's body. Black thongs and lacy bras are my favorite.

Q. How about a major turn off?

A: Messed up teeth. If the woman can eat a corn cob through a chain link fence then that is a no go for me.

Q. How do you feel about same sex relationships, both personally and as a writer?

A: To each their own. Love is found everywhere. Who am I to tell someone they can't love a person because they are the same sex.

Q. Do you explore these feelings, positive and negative in your stories?

A: Sometimes, I wrote a Bi story called "An Unconventional Relationship" that I felt was the best work I have ever done. Two men and a woman find happiness in their own ways in my story.

Q. How long does it take for you to write a story? Could you talk us through the process?

A: Usually my stories start off as a fantasy that I have or I receive an email from a fan detailing an adventure they had. I outline the story then fill in the rest. I will then edit it at least three times. I have started to use Hot Rider as a sounding board for my stories because her sex scenes are the best I think. It takes me about 12-14 hours to write a 5000 word story.

Q. What do you think is the best story you have published here?

A: The best one I have written and the one I feel is more me is "An Unconventional Relationship". It is a sex filled romantic story of how love can be found in the most unconventional places.

Q. Is there anything else you would like to say to the readers of this interview and your fans? Now is your chance...

A: I write for entertainment. I have been accused of being dramatic and invoking an emotional response from the reader. That response may be bad or good, but my writings invoked that response, so I am happy that it did. Giving the reader an emotional response is the highest reward I could ever hope to achieve.

Q. Finally, do you have a website or a blog, where your fans can visit and maybe learn more about you?

A: No, I currently only publish on this web site. In the future you never know.

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