Tell us about you:
Question: First tell us something about yourself, like name, age, and some other things we would like to know about you...Let’s call it a short bio.
Jwdoney: I think this stuff is visible in my profile, but: My name is Joe, I am 37 with 3 children and a beautiful wife. I am an avid Washington Nationals fan, I like NASCAR and WWE Wrestling and like most of my stories say and show I am an exhibitionist and love Tease.
Question: What are you wearing right now?
Jwdoney: Sadly just boring sweats and a t-shirt... but I am imagining you in lingerie and that gives me an idea for a story...
PleasureKitten: Honey you can imagine me in anything you want. Just make sure the story is a good one! HeHe.
Question: Does your spouse or significant other know you write, and if so, what does he/she think?
Jwdoney: YES!!! For the most part she supports me, sometimes helps me with creative ideas and occasionally proofreads. She prefers to be left out of any real/true story but mostly has no problems. We have a sort of catchline that I tend to use when I get an idea or something inspires me... “That gives me an idea for a story...”
Question: Is it difficult for you to keep your writing life separate from your professional life?
Jwdoney: Well... tricky question because if you have read some of my work, especially my non-fictional stories, there was a time, not so much now, where it seemed I was under some kind of spell where without trying I could find a woman willing to sleep with me, usually involving some sort of predicament where she got wet, tore her clothes, etc. After a while I gave up trying to convince my readers I wasn’t lying and that I really was just incredibly lucky but at the same time my wife began to get tired of the number of women I would “accidentally” have sex with. Lately for a couple of reasons I have taken a break from writing, partial burnout combined with family and job demands, but a good 30 - 40 % of the reason for 8 months without a story is I have all but eliminated any of my outside extra-marriage activities if you know what I mean.
Question: How did you come up with your ES nickname?
Jwdoney: First initial, middle initial, last name. Nothing clever or tricky.
Question: What brought you to EroticStories.com? What made you want to stay and become a part of it?
Jwdoney: I found it when I first really began exploring the internet way, way back in 2000 and I think I found it when I put “Exhibitionism” into a search engine on an adult site. Anyways, somehow I found the site back when it used to be completely free and after reading a few stories I did what all good backseat drivers and armchair quarterbacks do... I said I could do it better and submitted a part of a story my ex girlfriend and I had worked on together. I just basically stayed out of loyalty as I posted additional parts, then actaully began to create new stuff and post it.
Question: What is your favorite part of your body? Why?
Jwdoney: I could say my 10 inch cock, and yes I really do have a 10 inch cock... but I really never thought about it... My hands maybe, without them I couldn’t play videogames.
Question: If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be and why?
Jwdoney: I would like to be more conscientious of other peoples feelings and opinions, from cracking on their choice of Sports Team or Driver to just unnecessary comments I make from day to day.
Question: Boxers v Briefs? / Panties v Thong?
Jwdoney: Is none an option? I wear briefs daily, prefer to see panties and/or thong in as skimpy as possible. But let me leave you with this: my wife has proven to me it’s not the lingerie it’s what’s in it or more importantly what eventually is not in it.
Writing Habits:
Question: What do you like the most about writing erotic stories?
Jwdoney: Getting honest feedback from readers, even if it is critical. I also like when they share ideas for future parts or other story ideas. Best of all, I know it’s going to be a good story when I get aroused writing and/or proofreading it.
Question: How long have you been writing now? How did it all get started and what made you write your first story?
Jwdoney: For ES - 6 ½ years, over all since 1987. My ex-girlfriend Nicole and I decided to try and write and then submit a story to a publisher of the erotic paperback novels you used to find in stores. We were more comfortable writing about tension, tease and wanton than actual insertion, penetration and mundane description of the actual sex act. I have honed that style and become known for it here on ES. “ENCOUNTERS” is a version of that story Nicole and I wrote, with eventual changes made to include the Hooters storyline theme and updated to be timely with each part submitted. The original “ENCOUNTERS” story was actually smoother and easier to read, more flowing in a “24" style with no ‘parts’ or cliffhangers just a continuing story that for the most part took place over 3 or 4 days and was not intended to be at all realistic.
Question: Which of your stories is your personal favorite, the one you enjoyed writing the most, and/or the one holds the best memories or feelings for you?
Jwdoney: “ENCOUNTERS”. I caved in to criticism and “wrote” myslef into a corner and nearly ruined a good storlyline and a great character, but I plan to re-write many of the parts both for content and to streamline the series and then get my most popular series back on track.
Question: Have you ever gotten so turned on while writing that you had to stop to masturbate? What story was it?
Jwdoney: You are so naughty. Yes, several of the better parts of “ENCOUNTERS”, the whole “Photo Shoot” series, parts of my “Stepdaughter” series, “tattoo” both parts, “Strip Down 3.0" and “Invisible” and finally “Side Effect”
Question: Do you write from fantasy or true stories or a combination of both? Please explain or give an example.
Jwdoney: Some of both, as I mentioned I have a saying “That gives me an idea for a story” and I can get inspired by almost anything in nearly anyplace and yet it isn’t always something erotic that gives me an idea. Most of the time I am honest and tell the readers if a story is true, partially true, based on something or flat out fiction. Any of my adventures are true with little embellishment but stories like “Strip Down 3.0" and “ENCOUNTERS” are just my dreams and fantasies on paper or in text.
Question: Are the characters in your story based on real people, did you make them up, or are they a combination of both?
Jwdoney: A good portion are based on or inspired by actual people, sometimes even in completely fictional stories I base a character on someone I know (or wish I knew). Again, I almost always indicate and explain this to my readers to be clear to them.
Question: What parts of "Yourself" do you put into your characters?
Jwdoney: Funny you should ask that, 1 of my longtime readers noticed that most of my male character are 6 feet tall, in average to good shape, have short dark hair and a 10 inch cock. An exact description of me and sometimes I don’t even realize it at first, it’s almost automatic. Many of the female characters are based on my wife or ex-girlfriends, and on the rare occasion in one of my stories where I humiliate a woman, it is always based on (and usually named after) an ex-girlfriend.
Question: : If there was one trait you could take from one of your characters in your stories, and put it in place in your real life, what would it be and why?
Jwdoney: Sexual conquest confidence. I would love to walk up to a hot woman and say or do something to “bed” in James Bond style. I do alright and have a happy active marriage, but who wouldn’t want to have the opposite sex throw themselves at him or her? Seriously though, I would love for life to always have a happy ending.
Question: How long does it take for you to write a complete story? How does the process go?
Jwdoney: It has been a short as 1 to 2 hours and as long as a week, any longer and I step back and work on something else, if it isn’t flowing and fun, if it isn’t erotic, why do it?
Question: How do you come up with your story titles?
Jwdoney: I try to use the Tom Clancy and Ian Fleming (James Bond creator/writer) school where the title should invoke the theme and idea, draw them in and get them thinking before they even read. Sometimes the title comes in a snap, occasionally I get partway or further into the first draft before I get inspired with a name.
Question: What is the hardest part of writing a story?
Jwdoney: Balance! I have been criticzed for being too detailed and “Blah Blah Blah” and “Explaining way too much” but on the flipside I have been told I lacked detail and needed to flesh out my storyline and/or characters. My ENCOUNTERS series is on hiatus becasue of this exactly, I caved into feedback and changed style mid story (twice actually) and ended up facing a writers wall.
Question: Have you ever done research for a part of a story you didn’t have any knowledge about or maybe for a sex scene?
Jwdoney: YES! I have done research on various levels including watching both lesbian porn and eventually convincing a friend to let me watch her and her friend one night. Sadly no three way came from it and they were more nervous than anything, but I did it for my readers, LOL. Most importantly I had a neighbor figure out that I wrote erotica (it is a long story my wife has asked me not to write or submit) and volunteer to help me with research and test out ideas. She would actually model various clothes, swimwear, lingerie and pose nude to help with stories and of course we had quite a bit of sex for a while until it stopped being about research and was just an affair so it ended rather abruptly. But I was willing to do it for my readers. Incidentally, I have offered in the past and will still accept volunteers from ladies willing to model for me or pose for photos and send them to me, can I say that here? If I can convince my wife to allow me to write my “Research” story, I know it will be popular.
Question: Do you have any secret stories you don’t want to publish for the public? Do you publish your stories on other sites besides EroticStories.com and if so, why? Have you ever been published on paper?
Jwdoney: The “Research” story mentioned above. I do want to publish it even though at times it is embarrasing and funny and sexy at others, but my wife has asked me not to mostly because she thinks it will portray her badly. I have only written and submitted for ES, no desire to submit anywhere else. I would love to be published, but don’t really know who to contact or how to go about it.
Question: When you receive negative comments do you just ignore them, build from them, or let it put a negative image over the story itself, and let it hinder your writing?
Jwdoney: Yes on all of that. Sometimes I ignore it if I think it is unwarranted, other times I have actually considered feedback and rewritten and resubmitted a story. Yes I have allowed negativity to cloud me, “Actress Chronicles” is a good example, a story about Jenny McCarthy that never made it past the first part because just about everyone hated it. “Naked at the Party” is another, I rewrote it 3 times, 1 of those almost completely but it was just hated it seems.
Reading Habits:
Question: Do you also enjoy reading erotic stories? Which categories do you enjoy the most? Do you like true stories or fantasies?
Jwdoney: Yes, I prefer Exhibitionism and Voyeurism, anything that involves stripping or tease, Accidental exposure absolutely turns me on. The “Carrie” comic strip from the 80s and 90s from the British mag MAYFAIR was the bomb. I like both types as long as they are erotic. I can get aroused by a woman pumping gas, hanging up laundry or walking in the woods if she is somehow exposed doing it.
Question: Do you vote on other author's stories? How do you decide what score to give when you do?
Jwdoney: Sometimes, depends on if it moves me or if it is really bad. I don’t care so much about grammar, spelling and punctuation unless it is distraction, I look for description. Unless necessary, I think 14 full size paragraphs and everyone is still dressed and no one has even kissed or touched is way too long and drawn out, but I also do not like stories that by the 5th word have the characters fucking. I look for the tease content, describe undressing, desire, arousal.
Question: Do you send other author’s comments or feedback on their stories?
Jwdoney: Not very often, I probably should I admit it.
Question: Do you have a favorite author on ES? What makes them your favorite?
Jwdoney: I like ‘LoveAshli’ , ‘Jack King’, ‘Captivate’, ‘shayexhibits’, and ‘Misty’ Exhibitionism stories they have written. ‘Misty’ and I were going to collaborate on a story or two and if I was lucky possibly even get together for some mutual... “Research” but it never worked out...sigh.
Question: When you read a story do you: A. Touch yourself and come around the same time one of the characters do? B. Touch yourself but wait for the end to come? C. Touch yourself but wait until after you finish the story to come, such as after going to bed? D. Not touch yourself until you are finished and then continue thinking about the story and come? E. Any other variation you may do? (Please tell us what it is)
Jwdoney: E - If while reading I get aroused, it depends on how aroused I get. If I just spring right up and get rock hard then I get comfortable and stroke while I read, occasionally I will scroll and stroke but almost always I will visit various websites for visual stimulation once I am hard and ready. To be honest my wife likes me to on occasion get excited from a story or from browsing and “surprise” her in bed, so I have the best of both situations.
Sex Habits:
Question: Do you enjoy the visual side of erotica, as in porn movies or pictures? If so, do you have any favorites?
Jwdoney: My favorite porn movie is “Timepiece” from the 90s I think, it has all my favorite themes including a lot of exposure voyeurism and tease. This woman finds and steals a watch that stops time around it and uses it to seduce men and women in her office, an elevator at a bank and at home. The girl on girl in the elevator is scorching and the woman playing the “time stopped” woman who is slowly stripped, licked and then fucked all while pretending to be frozen is great acting for porn. My only problem with most porn is a lot of it is about fucking and who wants to watch minutes and hours of ramming it home, I prefer the undressing and exposure.
Question: Do you remember the first pornography you ever saw? Tell us about it?
Jwdoney: I think it was called “Little Orphan Dusty” This girl starts out walking in the woods (I think) and gets taken by a group of bikers and is left naked and used, finds her way to a house where the prerequisite shy man takes her in, treats her right and eventually sleeps wit her, then has a party where a guest “takes” dusty and I don’t remember much else. The idea of an innocent woman turning into a slut is one I hope to write eventually, who knows.
Question: Have you ever participated in erotic photography? If so, please tell us about it. If not, would you rather be the photographed or the photographer?
Jwdoney: Not yet, but wouldn’t mind. Especially intrigued by the 80s and 90s style of “almost where the man and woman were undressing then naked and “simulated “ sex but the photos never showed any actual penetration or insertion. I would like to try both, I am pretty good looking and have never had a complaint by any woman who has seen me naked (seriously) and I have my ideas of what is erotic so as to hopefully take erotic pics.
Question: What do you wear to bed?
Jwdoney: Usually just briefs, sometimes nothing. It is incredibly erotic to wake up naked and hard, and had rewarded me with a few hot morning sessions because when my wife or girlfriends see me hard the rest is usually all good.
Question: Do your sex life and writing have any correlation with each other??
Jwdoney: I think so, sometimes. One inspires the other and vice versa at times.
Question: How would you rate your willingness to try new things in bed?
Jwdoney: An 11 or 12 on a scale of 1 to 10.
Question: What’s the kinkiest thing you have done in your life?
Jwdoney: Sex in public places and exhibitionism and exposure in many public places, sometimes not even intentional
Question:Do you have any fantasies that you would like to fulfil?
Jwdoney: Jenny McCarthy!!!!!!!!! I would LOVE to be seduced at least once and would give anything to experience a woman losing her clothes aciddentally (in front of me) ala “Carrie”. To be unintentionally exposed in front of a crowd, I dream of ending up naked and hard in a women’s locker room. And me and any number of women in a steamy sauna...sigh. Oh, and Jenny McCarthy anytime, anywhere, any way.
Question: What is your opinion about sex toys? Do you have any toys yourself and if so, do you like to use them?
Jwdoney: No opinion, don’t have any, would be willing to try them though.
Question: What do you think about solo sex?
Jwdoney: Does that mean masturbation? If yes, I think we should all be taught to be proud of our bodies and to explore them, sometimes I can get more satisfaction by myself because I know what I like, what I want, what pacing I need.
Question: What are your favourite; and least favourite positions?
Jwdoney: ANY!! Missionary and Doggie, woman on top. As for least, I have to give it some thought, anything that involves pain or discomfort for either partner for sure.
Question: Do you believe in one night stands?
Jwdoney: Absolutely, everyone should have at least 1... or 2 or 3...
Question: What makes someone sexy to you?
Jwdoney: This would take forever to answer. Confidence in herself and her body. Tease and the hint of what is to come.
Question: What is a major turn on for you during sex?
Jwdoney: Knowing true desire and participation, involvement, kissing and touching.
Question: What is a major turn off for you during sex?
Jwdoney: Having her just lay there or say or imply “Hurry Up” or “get it over with I’m just doing this for you” Yuck.
Question: Sex-talk. Do you like or dislike talking during sex?
Jwdoney: Both, preferably sexy talk, not talking about bills or mundane stuff.
Question: In bed or on the kitchen table?
Jwdoney: Both and the couch, backseat of the vehicle, in the pool... anywhere. Of those two, the bed so I can prolong and enjoy it.
Question: What is your favourite or most memorable moment in bed?
Jwdoney: She will be mad I shared this, but one night my wife went to bed mad at me and purposely slept naked as if to point out what my punishment was. During the night the more she pushed me away the hotter I got and the more I tried to resist the harder I got. After a while of my thick hard 10 inch cock poking against her she decided to tease me and allow me a little touching and a kiss and then we were swept up in the moment and had probably the hottest most explosive sex ever, one of our personal top 5 maybe #1.
And Last but not least...
Question: You are #11 on the “Top 100 favourite authors” list. How does it feel to know you have 248 people that have favorited you? **
Jwdoney: That is a complete honor and one I take seriously because I have tried to write stories worth reading, my style has been and remains more about erotica and teasing and/or exposure and less about the actual in and out and in and out. I would love to crack the top 10 and who wouldn’t want to be #1 even for just a day or a week, so I will just have to get back on it and start writing again. I want to thank every reader, every fan who has stood by me and I promise to make them proud.
Question: Is there anybody on this site, who you would like to see interviewed? Why?
Jwdoney: Misty, so you can convince her to follow thru on our plan to collaborate and possibly get together.... and Jack King because I so want him to add to Tempting Vacation and do another Golf Pro tease story.
Question: Do you notice any differences between the "younger" writers on here, and between the "older writers" of this site?
Jwdoney: Nothing overt, I would suggest that those writing in the Exhibitionism category remember that readers want there to be actual exposure and exhibitionism.
Question: Is there anything else you would like to say to the readers of this interview and your fans? Now is your chance...
Jwdoney: Thank you for reading and supporting me, thanks for the feedback of any type and I hope you enjoy the next story or stories I submit. As for the ladies, my invitation to model is sincere, anything submitted would only be used for inspiration, I have no ulterior motive and can get truckload of porn on the ‘net, I am just looking for actual readers who want to help inspire and maybe be part of a story of series. Also anyone who can help me “reboot” ENCOUNTERS is welcome and will be greatly appreciated.
Now, about imaging you in lingerie and being inspired to write a story... you were saying?
PleasureKitten: I was saying, hmmm, sure why not. HeHe!
** Please note the statistics noted
were current at the time of this interview was done in May. Statistics can change daily, even hourly, so
these may not be the exact numbers that you will find on the site when you read
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