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Since I started doing the interviews in September, I have had many requests for me to answer the interview questions myself, so that readers will get the opportunity to get to know me. So for December I decided to answer the call. Hope I don’t bore you all…

Question: First tell us something thing about yourself, like name, age, and some other things we would like to know about you... Let’s call it a short bio.

My name is Crissy, and I am 26 years old. I am a wife and mother of two. I am also an independent consultant for For Your Pleasure Products. I like to read and also write poetry in my spare time.

Question: Does your spouse know you write, and if so, what does he think?

Yes he knows, and he enjoys my writing. Many times I have turned to him for help or research.

Question: Is it difficult for you to keep your writing life separate from your professional life?

Well since my professional life deals with me selling sex toys, you wouldn’t think I would have to keep them separate. But only a few people close to me know that I write. I think my parents wouldn’t really approve of it.

Question: What’s the main reason why you write erotic stories?

It helps me express my fantasies. I am usually a pretty shy and inhibited person, and by writing I get to explore a life that would usually only exist in my head.

Question: How did it all get started and what made you write your first story?

One night I was surfing the Internet for erotic stories, and came across the site. I read for a while, but wanted to read the fan club stories, but didn’t want to pay for it… LOL… So, since I had written about fantasies before, but only for my husband, I figured, hey, what do I have to lose? The first story I wrote, when I uploaded it, turned out to be all one paragraph, and it scored poorly, but at least well enough to make it into the fan club. I thought to myself, I can do better than that, and just started writing more and more.

Question: Do you write only fantasy or also true stories?

Mainly fantasy, with some true elements every so often.

Question: Which ones do you prefer to write?

Fantasy, because, while it is fun to relive an experience, what I think is exciting, isn’t always exciting to others.

Question: Do you also enjoy reading erotic stories?

Yes I do.

Question: Which ones do you prefer to read, true or fantasy?

As long as you can put yourself into the story, they are good, whether they are true or fantasy.

Question: Which genre do you enjoy the most?

Probably the bi women or lesbian. I have enjoyed a few bi men and gay men, and many straight threesome stories.

Question: How long have you been writing now?

A little over a year now.

Question: Are all your stories posted on this site or do you have some secret stories you don’t want to publish for the public?

Yes, all of the completed stories are on here, I have a few that aren’t completed, so they aren’t here.

Question: How long does it take for you to write a complete story? How does the process go?

It depends. Sometimes I just get the idea in my head, sit down in front of the computer, and type, and an hour later it is done. Sometimes I start out in the mood to write, get interrupted by the kids, and it takes me weeks to get back into the feel of the story.

Question: What is the hardest part of writing a story?

For me, it is coming up with the names and physical descriptions of the characters. The rest comes easy.

Question: How do you come up with your story titles?

Sometimes I have the title before I have the story, sometimes, I just take a general theme of the story, and go from there.

Question: The characters in your stories, are they based on true people, if it’s a fantasy story?

Pretty much based on people in my life. Even the names are basis of real people I know.

Question: Do you have a favourite author on ES and if so, why?

There are so many good ones out there, it is hard to choose one or two.

Question: Is there anybody on this site, who you would like to see interviewed? And why?

Well, you get to see all that I have wanted to interview. There is one that I can’t seem to track down, and hopefully will someday. He is on the forums by the name of Cage, and there are a few authors with the name of Cage on here. I know he writes gay stories, and would love to interview a gay author. I would also love to find a few gay, lesbian, and other bi authors, since I have done so many straight ones.

Question: Do you also publish your stories on other sites and if so, why?

Nope, so far this is the only place, except for my own website, www.ksqt25.com.

Question: What do you like the most and the least about writing erotic stories?

The thrill it gives me to be acting out a fantasy in my head, and releasing it from just my knowledge, and letting others see. I enjoy hearing the feedback, and love to hear that people look at my picture and think there is no way some one that looks like me could ever write let alone think like this… The least thing I like about writing is not always being able to convey the thought I have, sometimes I start out going one way, and then it turns out differently than what I wanted to.

Question: What genre don’t you like at all? And what kind would you never write?

I am not into pain, severe dom/sub, or anything that has to do with bodily waste, that’s just, Ewwww…

Question: Have you ever done research for a part of a story you didn’t have any knowledge about?

Yes I have, I have contacted people who have experienced it for their input, and also tried a few things out with my husband to see how it would go.

Question: Have you learned anything you would like to share since you started writing erotic stories?

Just write what you want, don’t write to please others, and ALWAYS USE THE SPELL CHECK, otherwise you will get nasty responses.

Question: Which of your stories is your personal favourite, or one you enjoyed writing the most, or which one holds the best memories or feelings for you?

My most favorite has to be “The Feel of a Woman.” Because that was when I just started exploring my sexuality, and fantasizing about being with another woman.

Question: When you receive comments, obviously you would enjoy the positive ones, but if you receive negative ones, do you just ignore them, build from them, or let it put a negative image over the story itself, and let it hinder your writing?

It used to put a negative image in my head, and would make me mad, but now, if the comment is something specific, I look into what they are suggesting or commenting about, and see if it works the way they suggest in my mind. If it is just the general, “that story sucked,” I just hit the delete button and go on with my life.

Question: What are your thoughts when you look at your votes for your stories, and you see a line of 8’s, 9’s and 10’s, then along comes a 5, 4, or even a 3?

I wonder if it was really something in my story they didn’t like, or if they are just on this rampage to ruin everyone’s fire that day.

Question: If there was one trait you could take out of one of your stories, and put it in place in your real life, what would it be and why?

To be more aggressive and take charge in bed, and to be more comfortable with myself.

Question: What is the impact of having fans had on your writing and your everyday life?

It is an awesome feeling. I just want to shout out to the world about it, but then I just imagine the face my great Aunt, who is a nun, would have, and so I decide to just celebrate on the inside…

Question: Are you anything like your characters you write in real life?

Mostly not, because I am very cautious, and don’t act on impulse.

Question: We already know you enjoy erotic stories, but do you also enjoy the visual side of erotica, as in porn movies? If so, any favourites?

Yes I do, I love to watch them with my husband, or alone for some special “me” time. I love anything Jenna Jameson has done.

Question: What’s the kinkiest thing you have done in your life so far?

Made out with another woman or do my husband up the rear with a dildo.

Question: Do you have any fantasies that you would like to fulfil?

Yes many, and hopefully some day I will be able to.

Question: Have you ever done erotic photography? If not, would you like to be photographed or not?

Yes I have for my husband, but that is about as far as it will go, for now.

Question: What is your favourite position?

Doggy style, and the good ole’ missionary.

Question: Do you believe in one-night stands?

I believe that some people have very high libido’s, and need that fix, but not for me, sex has way too much meaning and feelings in it to just experience it for one night.

Question: What is a major turn on for you during sex?

Watching a man masturbate, and looking the person I am with deeply in the eyes.

Question: Sextalk. Do you like or dislike talking during sex?

It’s ok, not an every time event, but have done it on occasion.

Question: What is a major turn off for you during sex?

Not enough foreplay being done to me.

Question: What do you think about solo sex?

I enjoy it, and think everyone should do it more often.

Question: Your biggest mistake or shameful moment in bed?

My boyfriend at the time and I were having sex, and it was one of the first times I was starting to have a g-spot orgasm, and he was pounding pretty hard, and all of a sudden, I started to pussy fart. I was so embarrassed, I couldn’t keep going, and all he could do was laugh at me.

Question: Is there anything else you would like to say to the readers of this interview? Now is your chance...

Not really, just enjoy what you read, and if you feel you can do it, then do it, and don’t let anyone make you feel like you suck just because they say you do, they just may be having a bad day.

You can check out ksqt's stories here.

As always I enjoy feedback, and to hear about who you would like to see get interviewed. Please feel free to contact me anytime with suggestions on interviewee’s or questions to ask. Have a wonderful Holiday season, and see you all next year!!!

Crissy